When David was born we talked about having him be part of our family–instead of having our family revolve around him. While we’ve worked to try and make this happen, it’s an imperfect journey. We want Matthias to feel seen and heard, but often he has to wait while we care for David. He waits in doctor offices. He helps David when he’d rather be reading or playing. Each member of our family is important, but logistically, David requires more care and attention than Matthias. So we flex and bend and accommodate. It’s challenging and beautiful. This is family, right? It stretches and grows our hearts. It makes us better.
It’s Monday, how about some hellos?
Hello Christmas week! It’s here–ready or not!
Hello starting to wrap gifts.
Hello looking forward to time with family.
Hello undecorated tree. We haven’t had time! It up, it has lights but that’s all so far.
Hello messy house–it’s hard to keep up. Oh well!
Hello sniffles. David has another cold. I’m over it!
Hello spontaneous nerf wars. And subsequently finding nerf darts in the funniest places.
Hello trying to find balance and finding it impossible.
Hello embracing real, messy, beautiful life.
It’s Monday! What are you saying hello to this week?